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Mum told ‘go home and make memories’ after being given heart-breaking terminal cancer diagnosis

A woman who mistook her stomach pain for IBS pain walked into the hospital and left with only a year and a half to live.

Clair Honeywood, who worked in the A&E department in King’s Lynn, Norfolk, initially believed the pain was related to IBS. However, the “agony” eventually led her to visit her local hospital, where something unusual was detected in her pancreas.

Thee 45-year-old’s symptoms worsened and she began to appear yellow. Weeks after her initial A&E visit, Clair received a different diagnosis. She said: “They didn’t want to give me my diagnosis because I was alone,” she shared. “My poor consultant didn’t want to tell me but I begged him to tell me.”

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She was then informed that she had pancreatic cancer. She said: “The doctors told me that the cancer had not spread – but then they said it was not operable.” She was given a mere five per cent chance of success with chemotherapy.

This news was another shock for her but she remains “really positive”, driven by her two children. She said: “”The doctors said to just go home and make memories. I am only 45 and you don’t expect to go through this at this age. There is still hope but at the moment I am just focusing on the three months in chemotherapy. Life is for living – the body can’t survive without the mind so I have to be positive. Working in the NHS you see traumatic things and you push it aside – I don’t know if it is a coping mechanism.”

Even if the tumour shrinks following chemotherapy, doctors will still be unable to operate due to its location around the main artery, making surgery highly risky. “The oncologist said six months worth of chemo and gave me 17 months to live.

“It is a C-shaped tumour wrapped around the artery. It is not normal for someone my age to get this cancer – it is a silent cancer too it is really tricky. When you don’t know what’s happening your mind just goes to some dark places.”

Speaking on her tough journey and her hopes, Clair shared: “You just feel like your whole world ended – you just think about your kids,” reflecting the emotional toll of her diagnosis. She also elaborated on her dream to tie the knot: “My partner Danny had been talking about getting married and my friend offered her hand to do the wedding in a farm which reminds me of my dad’s home in the country side.”

Despite the gruelling battle ahead, Clair remains optimistic: “I feel like I have been given the gift of time. I am spending more time with my boys – I have to look at the positives.”

The community has rallied around her throughout her terminal pancreatic cancer, raising funds to help fulfil her ‘last wish’ – marrying her long-term partner.

The loving partnership of two decades is set to culminate in marriage with her partner, Danny Burch, 40, as Clair joyously recounts: “We have been together for 21 years and it has been crazy that it took us this long to get married. He keeps looking at me and saying ‘I can’t wait for you to be my wife’.”

Clair is looking forward to a relaxed wedding, surrounded by nature and loved ones. She said: “It is going to be such a perfect day to get together with all of my friends and family that you don’t get with when you are working,” she said. “Me and Danny have been together for 21 years and it has been crazy that it took us this long to get married. He keeps looking at me and saying ‘I can’t wait for you to be my wife’.”

A GoFundMe page has been set up by a friend to help fund Clair’s wedding. To make a donation click here.

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